Love historically was not something that was factored into relationships and marriage. Love was considered illogical and transitory, and since marriage was usually done for economic reasons, the two didn’t align.
Love and relationships, with a work-it-out mindset, take effort to maintain; regular tune-ups are required, just like with your car. Having to work hard on your relationship is a good sign, not a bad one.
Social media has a significant impact on one’s perception of love. Movies and romance novels may also impact, but it’s implied that they’re fake (even if people forget that). Social media, on the other hand, appears real because individuals are posting things. What is seen on social media is a curated, edited, distorted view of what actually goes on in a healthy relationship.